Titanium; the Empath, the Villain and the Way. 3 min read

In this blog Rachael explores her view on the villains in our lives, how we can protect ourselves against their negative energy through Understanding, personal empowerment, love & forgiveness.

For anyone that needs this at the moment. With love.

I have had many conversations with my husband over the years that I have been in this field about Spiritual people not behaving Spirituality. I have to remind him that people are still people, and we still all have our own rubbish to work through.

People often play the role of villains in our lives. But these people make an agreement with us, before incarnation, to play these roles in our lives. These are all periods to learn about ourselves, these are all periods of personal expansion. What could I have done differently? Why do I even care what this person thinks? Why does this hurt me so much? Why is my Ego dented by this? What healing do I need to do around this?

Sometimes we may go through these episodes and think I’ve done nothing wrong. I can’t see what I could have done differently.

Don’t forget that you are also playing the role of villain in their life.

They maybe viewing through their own trauma and through their own life experiences which have effected them detrimentally.

Sometimes they really don’t want to see what they need to heal in themselves and will look for anything to justify this twisted view of you, in order so they don’t have to face their own ‘demons’. And that’s fine, as we’re all damaged people trying to make the best of life.

In some instances you’ll be able help or work with people who demonise you. Sometimes you won’t. And in those instances try to walk away in love. If you can’t, or they are too angry to allow you to do so, then do what you must do in those circumstances.

Quite often this anger appears when we haven’t listened to the signs from the Universe and we need to be dragged away from something by Spirit which is no longer serving us. It is the only way Spirit can get us to do what we need to, as it has become a toxic situation.

But equally you should not put up with people who go out of their way to justify their demonisation of you. This turns into bullying and abuse.

This serves neither you or them. Neither of you are learning what you need to from this toxic situation. Only by one or both of you moving away will you get the space and perspective to take what you needed to from that situation.

Don’t forget this learning will be something about yourself and not them. It will involve, eventually, and wholly forgiving yourself and them. Even if that doesn’t seem possible at the moment.

For this is the Way and this the Way is your path.

And if that learning appears to be cyclical, you’ve either not focused on what you need to, or you’ve not got to the bottom of the reason why you keep going through these cycles.

Over time you will spot these situations sooner, you’ll be able to walk away easier and it will effect you less emotionally and energetically afterwards.

Spirituality doesn’t stop people being people, but it does mean that if it does all go to pot, it’ll all ricochet a lot easier.

As an Empath and someone who learned to step back rather than forward at certain times in her life to avoid confrontation, I can really say that I’ve been able to embrace and be the words to this song over the last few years. But in love. Always in love.

remember who you are by empowering yourself through love; Photo by Rakicevic Nenad on

I give the song Titanium to you today, so that you may take some of that strength and love. Click here for my favourite version!!

“You shout it out

But I can’t hear a word you say

I’m talking loud not saying much

I’m criticized but all your bullets ricochet

You shoot me down, but I get up

I’m bulletproof nothing to lose

Fire away, fire away

Ricochet, you take your aim

Fire away, fire away

You shoot me down but I won’t fall, I am titanium

You shoot me down but I won’t fall

I am titanium, I am titanium, I am titanium, I am titanium

Cut me down

But it’s you who has further to fall

Ghost town, haunted love

Raise your voice, sticks and stones may break my bones

I’m talking loud not saying much

I’m bulletproof nothing to lose

Fire away, fire away

Ricochet, you take your aim

Fire away, fire away

You shoot me down but I won’t fall

I am titanium

You shoot me down but I won’t fall

I am titanium, I am titanium

Stone-hard, machine gun

Firing at the ones who run

Stone-hard, thus bulletproof glass

You shoot me down but I won’t fall, I am titanium

You shoot me down but I won’t fall, I am titanium

You shoot me down but I won’t fall, I am titanium

You shoot me down but I won’t fall, I am titanium

I am titanium”

By David Guetta.

If you are struggling with forgiveness of yourself or others, and wish to feel the peace and calm that it offers, I offer regular workshops working through the issues that affect us from outside Villains, Self Forgiveness and forgiving society. Please have a look at my page by clicking here for my next workshop.

Love as always

Rachael x